Meant To Be

OPRAH’S VIEW ON MEN

Posted on: February 4, 2007

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what
Makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t
mistreat a friend.

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.

Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you
any
differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you,speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.

Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if
he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two
way street.

You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute
About baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you… a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary,
not supplementary.

Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are,
and you’re always readily available to him – he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother’s house.

Never co-sign for a man. Don’t
fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women and men (just so they know)… You’ll
make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman
prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
Appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget
them.

5 Responses to "OPRAH’S VIEW ON MEN"

Agreed with most of the points here…
but, out of curiosity, what makes u think this comes from Oprah??

what makes u think this not come from Oprah..??:-”
neway it doesnt matter who wrote dat article since the points are absolutely truth..

cantik lah theme baru..

give and take

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